Preparing Your Child for Their COVID-19 Vaccination

 As a parent, it’s never easy seeing your child fret over getting a shot or feel pain from it, but there are things you can do to help prepare your child for their COVID-19 vaccination or any other shots as part of a wellness checkup.

“It’s not uncommon for kids to be anxious about getting a vaccination,” says pediatrician Dr. Pilar Bradshaw of Eugene Pediatric Associates who advises parents to treat the COVID-19 vaccine like you would any other vaccination. Many parents wonder whether it is better to talk about shots ahead of time or to “spring” it on them. Dr. Bradshaw encourages parents to prepare their child for their vaccination rather than “Surprise, you’re getting a shot!”

Dr. Anita Geisler, pediatrician at Oregon Medical Group and Parenting Now Board President, agrees: “As you prepare for your wellness checks, remember to be kind but firm to your child so they can calmly anticipate their upcoming vaccinations.” 

“Remember, kids pick up on how the adults around them are feeling, so if you are calm before and during the vaccination, your child will likely be calmer as well,” says Dr. Bradshaw who suggests parents be reassuring and explain that it will pinch for just a second and then it will be over. 

"For older kids who understand the importance of taking safety precautions against COVID, give them huge kudos for getting the vaccine,” says Dr. Bradshaw. “Remind them that in doing so, they are helping to protect not just themselves but their family and others in the community. Explain that the shot will also make it safer for them to participate safely in fun activities with other kids, and being vaccinated means they don't need to quarantine should you later discover that they were in close contact with someone who tests positive for coronavirus.” 

Ideas for making shots feel less scary

Meredith Tufts, Program Manager and Parenting Educator at Parenting Now, advises that parents consider their child’s temperament and age when it comes to conversations about getting shots. “Some children will have an easier time with lots of warning and conversation. For others, it builds their stress and fear around it,” says Tufts who suggests that parents ask themselves: How does my child handle the unexpected? Do they tend to feel a lot of anxiety about future events? For those conversations, Tufts suggests keeping them “true” and brief, and focusing on the beneficial aspects of getting vaccinations. Sample language could include: “We get vaccines to help our bodies know how to keep us healthy/fight germs." 

Children learn by doing and repetition. Many young children like practicing giving shots, says Tufts. You could use an empty infant's medicine dispenser, a straw or anything long and narrow to give “shots” to a stuffed animal, baby doll or caregiver. By turning it into a game, you can model the words and behaviors you want your child to learn, as well as teach them new skills, name emotions they might feel during a shot, and problem-solve solutions to when they feel scared or worried.

If your child enjoys watching videos, there are several kids programs that talk about vaccines, germs, and getting shots, including Sid The Science Kid: “Getting A Shot: You Can Do It!” Kindergarteners might also enjoy a Daniel Tiger video titled: “Daniel Gets A Shot.” 

Some children’s nerves can be calmed by knowing that a special activity or treat will come after their shots. With your child, decide on something your child could get as a reward or celebration for “being brave.” This could be a trip to the park, an ice cream, or special toy.

During your child’s appointment

Dr. Geisler recommends putting your phone away during your child’s vaccinations and wellness checkups. “Though your child may seem too young to notice that you are on a device, he/she does on some level recognize that your attention is divided.” 

If your child starts to get nervous or anxious, Heather Gray, Program Manager and Parenting Educator at Parenting Now, recommends using the NBA Stress Busters approach from Parenting Now’s Make Parenting A Pleasure curriculum.

• Notice -- physical symptoms, thoughts, and feelings.

• Breathe -- three deep breaths through nose.

• Act -- step back and count to 10, add humor, get moving (wiggle your arms, have a quick dance party, do 5 jumping jacks).

For older children, Dr. Bradshaw encourages parents to let your older kids know that if they have questions or concerns about the COVID vaccine, they can talk with their doctor about it before they get the shot.

Dr. Geisler concludes: “If you are worried that your child won’t do well [during their shots], let your doctor know ahead of time—they and their staff are very skilled at helping through this scary part of the check up.”

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